9. Do Not Go It Alone

As adults we somehow think that we have to do everything by ourselves. If you are experiencing anxiety about your upcoming gynecologist appointment, ask someone to go with you. Your mom, your sister, your friend, your partner – it doesn’t matter who. Preferably, this is a person who is a calming influence for you, is a good listener, and who makes you feel supported. While they may not necessarily be able to come into the room with you (this will depend on your gynecologist and the procedure being done), they can accompany you in the waiting room, helping you to stay calm. Afterwards you can then debrief and discuss the appointment with them, which can also help ease your stress.