Sean Cate
Sean Cate
September 25, 2024 ·  3 min read

Therapist Reveals Oddly Scary Reason Some People Can’t Fall Asleep Without Background Noise

For many, falling asleep without background noise is nearly impossible. Whether it’s the hum of a fan or the soft drone of a TV show, this nighttime habit might have deeper psychological roots than you think. Mental health experts have revealed that the need for noise at bedtime can be a response to trauma or anxiety, making it more than just a simple preference.1

Why Some Need Background Noise to Sleep

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Background noise can be comforting for those who struggle to sleep in complete silence. Whether it’s white noise, music, or the hum of an air conditioner, this noise masks the quiet, which some find unsettling. While many use it to drown out random noises, for some, it’s an emotional necessity. According to a TikTok mental health account, this habit could be rooted in a psychological response to abandonment issues. The noise tricks the brain into thinking they’re not alone.

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Emotional Suppression and Anxiety

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Therapists suggest that the need for background noise might also be tied to suppressing unwanted emotions. As counselor Juulia Karlstedt explains, “We fill our attentional capacity with stimuli to avoid unpleasant emotions.” Without background noise, individuals may be forced to confront suppressed thoughts and anxieties, which come to the surface in silence. This makes the stillness of night a prime time for anxieties to bubble up.

Anxiety Disorders and Sleep

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For some, the fear of silence at night may be linked to underlying mental health conditions, such as Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) or Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). April Kilduff, a therapist, mentions that for people with GAD, nighttime can be particularly difficult because there are no distractions, and their worries spiral without interruption. The noise acts as a coping mechanism to keep anxiety at bay.2

Trauma and the Fear of Being Alone

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The fear of silence may also stem from childhood experiences, particularly trauma or abandonment. In such cases, the need for noise is a way to avoid feelings of loneliness. One user on social media commented that even with a partner beside them, they still rely on background noise to feel secure. This indicates that the noise doesn’t just distract from silence, but also combats deeper fears of isolation.

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When to Seek Help

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While needing noise to sleep isn’t unusual, it becomes problematic if it’s driven by underlying anxiety or fear. If the idea of sleeping in silence creates overwhelming anxiety, it may be time to consult a therapist. Treatment options like Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) can help individuals gradually become comfortable with silence by addressing the root causes of their fears.

The Power of Noise

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While many people use background noise simply to enhance their sleep quality, for others, it’s a psychological necessity tied to anxiety, trauma, or emotional suppression. Understanding why you might need that noise to fall asleep could be the first step toward addressing any underlying mental health concerns.

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Sources

  1. Therapist explains disturbing reason why some people can’t sleep without background noise.” Lad Bible. Tom Earnshaw. September 4, 2024.
  2. Is it normal to only sleep with background noise? I’m afraid of the silence.” Treat Myocd. Erica Digap Burson. March 1, 2024